Here are some rules for men who do not want to be accused of raping a woman:
1. ALWAYS ask the women directly during a date in a private setting, “Do you want to have sex with me?” If her response is anything other than, “Yes,” drop the issue and do not bring it up again until she does.
2. Never talk about the experience of having sex with anyone other than a licensed therapist, your parents or other guardians (if you are underaged), or a clergyperson in a counseling session. PRIVATE MATTERS MUST REMAIN PRIVATE. Other men do not need to know how you “banged that hot chick last night”.
3. The claim that women claim to be raped because they regret having sex with a man long after the fact is simply self-serving bullshit. Do not repeat that claim, ever.
4. Even if you use protection or any form of birth control, PROMISE the woman that if she gets pregnant, you will either support the child or pay for an abortion, whichever she decides.
5. Do not merely be a woman’s sex partner…..be her LOVER. Be willing to share in anything she does or is involved in or ask her to share in things you enjoy. If you do not want a complete relationship with a woman, you can always masturbate by yourself.
6. Unless your partner is a porn star, you do not need to take or possess nude pics of her. And NEVER post them online!
That is all for now. If I think of more, or if you have your own suggestions for rules, this list will be added to.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_gender
Based on convictions
Victims 91% Female 9% Male
Perpetrators 99% Male 1% Female
Permutation
Rape of females by males 90.09%
Rape of males by males 8.91%
Rape of female by females 0.91%
Rape of males by females 0.09%
There is under reporting which skews the stats, but it’s a start.
Agreed 100%
This post is really not right
Can you explain why, Autumn? The only problem I see with it is the first rule, which contains an exact quote, but in most cases the man and woman might use their own words or use some sort of signal to each other to indicate desire for sex at a certain time. Couples may vary, but the idea of getting explicit consent from your partner is what matters.