Read this:
http://moms.dailybuzz.com/blog/12823-not-without-my-niece
Hi Amy,
I have a pretty awful and ugly family situation and I really don’t know what to do about it. I feel completely helpless and I thought maybe you and your readers may have some advice or suggestions on how to proceed. It is kind of long and involved, although I will try to make it as brief as I can.