From “victim” to victimizer!

I have friends who have deluded themselves into assuming dogmatically that any teenager who has sex with an adult and even has a baby with him or her is automatically a victim of sexual abuse. I have never believed this (I think if force was not used, it should not be called rape and age is irrelevant). Now I find a story that seems to prove how right my position is.

https://www.yahoo.com/celebrity/man-fathered-former-high-school-211822550.html

Man Who Fathered Former High School Teacher’s Son Allegedly Kills Them Both: Source

A former high school teacher’s former student has been accused of killing both her and their young son — born from an affair that made headlines in 2013 — a New York City police source tells PEOPLE.

An NYPD spokesperson declined to comment on the case, but the department source says Isaac Duran was charged Tuesday with two counts of murder in the deaths of former Dewitt Clinton High School teacher Felicia Barahona and her 4-year-old son, Miguel.

The 36-year-old mother and Afghanistan War veteran was found dead Monday morning in the living room of her Manhattan apartment, according to the police source, who confirms that she was strangled with an electrical cord and Miguel was drowned in the bathtub. The boy was found face-down, floating in the filled tub, the source says.

Their bodies were first discovered by the apartment building’s superintendent, who checked on Barahona after noticing a foul odor that seemed to be coming from her unit.

Duran was taken into custody later Monday, according to the source.

Under “intense questioning,” PEOPLE’s source alleges that Duran “owned up” to the killings — at one point “referencing Satan.”

Duran’s custody status was not immediately available Tuesday afternoon. It was unclear from court records if he had been before a judge yet, entered a plea to his charges or whether a bail amount had been set for him.

It was unknown Tuesday if Duran had retained an attorney who could comment on his behalf.

According to the NYPD source, Duran initially denied having any involvement in the deaths and told detectives he hadn’t been to Barahona’s apartment building since 2012, when their son was born. However, police discovered that Duran was spotted on surveillance video entering and leaving the building over several days.

Barahona’s relationship with Duran first became public in March 2013, after an internal investigative report was obtained by multiple local news outlets.

According to those reports, Barahona began having sex with Duran after he turned 18, though they later split in early 2012 before Miguel was born. Barahona was fired from Dewitt Clinton High in August 2012.

Her family could not immediately be reached.

Still want to claim that young man was merely an innocent victim of abuse? No, he was the real abuser here. The teacher was wrong, but she and her child did not deserve the death penalty!

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  1. Here’s another example of what I am talking about above:

    http://nypost.com/2017/01/25/teacher-allegedly-paid-student-28k-to-keep-sex-secret/?ref=yfp

    Teen milks $28K from teacher in ‘sextortion’ plot By Joshua Rhett Miller January 25, 2017

    A middle school teacher in Texas paid a former student nearly $28,000 to keep their sexual relationship secret — and was arrested after the teen’s mother found out about their romps, court documents show.

    Thao “Sandy” Doan, a teacher at Raul Quintanilla Sr. Middle School in Dallas, was arrested last week and faces a sexual assault charge in connection to the alleged relationship with the 14-year-old boy, the Dallas Morning News reported, citing Doan’s arrest warrant affidavit filed by the Dallas ISD Police Department.

    The boy’s mother told investigators earlier this month that he was receiving “large amounts of money” that he was using for “illegal purposes,” which created problems at home, according to the affidavit.

    The boy’s mother told administrators the payments needed to stop and provided investigators with screenshots of messages showing that her son asked for money.

    “… watch ima start getting the pics and everything ready … to show the cops right I anit [sic] playing,” one message read.

    Dallas ISD Police Department spokeswoman Robyn Harris said Doan, 27, was placed on administrative leave on Jan. 10. She had been employed with the district since 2014, Harris told The Post in a brief telephone interview Wednesday. She declined to elaborate on whether Doan had any previous disciplinary issues or infractions, citing privacy concerns.

    Doan, according to the school’s website, worked as a coach for the cross-country and soccer teams. Attempts to reach her were unsuccessful and it wasn’t clear if she had hired an attorney.

    Doan admitted to the police, according to the arrest affidavit, that she communicated with the boy via text messages, Instagram and Kik before they had sex at a park in the summer of 2015. They also had sex later that year between November and December — and again in December 2016, she told police.

    Doan, who was arrested Friday, was released from jail after posting bail, the Dallas Morning News reported.

    The boy’s mother told KDFW that she saw her son’s behavior change dramatically around the time he allegedly started the fling with his teacher.

    “At times, he started getting into drugs, drinking, leaving the house. And he would probably get money and just leave the whole weekend,” the boy’s mother said. “I wouldn’t hear from him. I’d be out looking for him.”

    Doan confirmed to authorities in a search warrant affidavit that the boy received an image of her exposing her breasts. The two also engaged in explicit texting, KDFW reports.

    “She did very bad. She did bad,” she said. “And I’m not condoning what he did because I know he was wrong at what he also did because blackmailing is not acceptable.”

    The most recent payment to the boy, now 15, was $1,500, according to his mother, which was sent one day before she reported the messages to school officials.

    “I mean this is very hurtful because he’s a victim here, and he was the child,” she continued. “He is the child. He’s still a child. But it hurts me because I’ve been through a lot with him.”

    She told KDFW that her son had been previously arrested on unrelated burglary and robbery charges.

    ((Dale Husband: No, that punk was NOT a victim, he was a perp! We have got to change our attitudes about sexual matters and ultimately our laws! Sexual abuse can come from anyone and be done to anyone; it is not a matter of age.))

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